Author’s Note: The posts in this series are written with the straight female as the intended audience. Obviously these posts will be pretty applicable to everyone in one way or another, but when I say “you,” I’m talking to the straight ladies to whom the “gay best friend” stereotype caters. When I first heard of the growing “gay best friend” stereotype, it was shortly after I had settled into my college life and made a bunch of new friends. At that point, none of my close male friends were even gay; all were either straight or bisexual. However, the idea of a girl having, essentially, a “sexually non-threatening best friend” who she could talk to about drama struck me as surprisingly relevant. It immediately made me think of one close friend who was happily engaged, and not even remotely...






